People are interesting. My neighbor of 19 years (if I still lived at my parents) has always been kind and helpful to anyone in the neighborhood that would allow it. She cares for everyone. When I was little her son and I tried for a really long time to catch an injured squirrel. He finally did and they nursed him back to health and kept him a few years. Being one of the most kindhearted people I know, it’s strange to me that in her time of need she won’t allow anyone to be there for her.
It bothers me, because she had a bladder surgery and since then she hasn’t been at work. She has family visit everyday. We talked to her son and he said that she is having a hard time dealing with some things mentally and emotionally. All I can figure is that they found something bad. It is upsetting because she is literally like my second mom. When I had my first wreck I called her so she could let my mom down easy. Her and her son came and helped me with everything because I didn’t know what to do. I have lived next to her since I was 4. This is what is on my mind lately. I pray that she is ok.
Sounds like she has been heavy on your heart. I know people just like that, that help everyone out, but don't like help in return. It's hard. I will definitely say a prayer that she is ok.
ReplyDeleteI hope she recovers well from whatever it is.
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I can understand where this neighbor is coming from. I am the type of person that helps everyone that I can and I will not let anyone help me. I have also been in the situation to where I was ill and in a lot of pain but no one ever knew. I when it came to the point where I had to have surgey everyone was in shock because I had never said anything.
ReplyDeleteWith having this type of personality a lot weighs heavly on your shoulders and depression is highly likely. I battle with my issues all the time and it is just a work in progress.
I hope that your neighbor gets well and back to her normal self soon. I will be thinking about her and you.